Better approaches to high anxiety

Compare Better Approaches to High Anxiety than just EBT

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Anxiety is not only psychological, spiritual, nor, biochemical.

Our feelings are multifaceted and sometimes connected to intangible things.

Often anxiety lives at the intersection of:

  • Thought patterns
  • Nervous system activation
  • Blood sugar instability
  • Circadian rhythm shifts
  • Unmet emotional or spiritual needs

Therefore, if we want real relief — especially during the darkest hours of the day (and places of our life)— we must address all layers of this complex system.

Some of the techniques we will connect with include Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT), regular nutrition and sleep as therapy, and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT).


Anxiety - hand reflexology

Part I: The Blood Sugar–Anxiety Loop

Many people mistake hypoglycemia for panic.

When blood sugar drops, the body releases:

  • Cortisol
  • Adrenaline
  • Glucagon

These stress hormones raise glucose levels — but they also create:

  • Racing heart
  • Sweaty palms
  • Shakiness
  • Sudden dread
  • Irritability

In other words, a metabolic dip can feel like an anxiety disorder.

Furthermore, repeated sugar spikes and crashes can:

  • Increase cortisol sensitivity
  • Sensitize the amygdala
  • Disrupt sleep
  • Intensify evening anxiety

Sometimes what we call “existential fear” is simply an unstable internal environment.

Before we challenge a thought, we should ask:

  • Have I eaten protein recently?
  • Am I dehydrated?
  • Did I overconsume caffeine?
  • Is my nervous system exhausted?

anxiety- sundown

Part II: Why Anxiety Often Peaks at Sundown

The phenomenon known as Sundowning is most discussed in dementia care, yet many people experience a milder version of evening emotional vulnerability.

As daylight fades:

  • Cortisol drops
  • Fatigue increases
  • Blood sugar becomes less stable
  • Cognitive control weakens
  • Loneliness feels louder

Additionally, darkness historically signaled vulnerability in human evolution. Therefore, the nervous system may interpret evening as subtle threat.

This is why many people report:

  • 4–8 pm anxiety spikes
  • Increased rumination at night
  • “Dark thoughts” before bed

However, rather than pathologizing this, we can prepare for it.


Part III: CBT — Working With the Mind

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy helps identify distorted thinking patterns such as:

  • Catastrophizing
  • All-or-nothing thinking
  • Mind-reading
  • Fortune-telling

When anxiety rises, CBT invites us to ask:

  • What evidence supports this thought?
  • What evidence contradicts it?
  • What is a more balanced interpretation?

However, CBT works best when the nervous system is not in full fight-or-flight.

Which brings us to EFT.


Part IV: EFT Tapping — Regulating the Body While Reframing the Thought

Emotional Freedom Techniques combines:

  • Exposure (naming the fear)
  • Somatic stimulation (tapping meridian points)
  • Cognitive reframing (self-acceptance statements)

Developed by Gary Craig and influenced by Roger Callahan, EFT bridges Eastern meridian theory with Western psychology.

anxiety- eft tapping

Why EFT Works During Blood Sugar Anxiety

When cortisol spikes from low glucose:

  • The amygdala activates
  • The prefrontal cortex goes offline

Tapping may:

  • Lower physiological stress signals
  • Increase vagal tone
  • Restore cognitive flexibility

So instead of choosing between CBT or tapping, we combine them:

  1. Stabilize blood sugar.
  2. Tap to calm the body.
  3. Then apply CBT reframing.

“When to Tap — After caffeine crash, before evening rumination, during emotional spikes.”


Part V: EFT Without Tapping (For Quiet Evenings)

For some, tapping feels stimulating at night. Therefore, an alternative is EFT without tapping, which uses:

  • Hand-over-heart placement
  • Slow nasal breathing
  • Compassion statements
  • Emotional witnessing

Example:

“Even though my body feels unsettled, I am safe.”

“This may be a blood sugar dip, not a catastrophe.”

“I can respond gently.”

Sometimes awareness itself regulates.


Part VI: Rituals for Stability at the Darkest Hours

Because evening anxiety is predictable, we can build protective rituals.

1. Protein + Fat Anchor Snack (Late Afternoon)

Examples:

  • Apple + almond butter
  • Greek yogurt
  • Cottage cheese
  • Nuts + herbal tea

Avoid high-sugar evening snacks that spike and crash.


2. Hydration + Electrolytes

Dehydration can mimic anxiety. Add:

  • Mineral water
  • Pinch of sea salt in water
  • Magnesium glycinate (if appropriate)

3. Caffeine Boundaries

No caffeine after early afternoon.

Caffeine plus cortisol drop equals false alarm.


4. Light Exposure Reset

  • Gentle lamplight instead of harsh overhead lights
  • Short walk at sunset
  • Avoid blue light close to bedtime

Darkness without ritual can amplify fear.

Darkness with ritual becomes grounding.


5. Behavioral Anchors

  • Evening journaling (“What am I fearing?”)
  • Breathwork (4–6 breathing)
  • Acupressure on Pericardium 6
  • Gentle stretching
  • Warm shower or long bath

These rituals signal to the nervous system:

The day is ending safely.


“Evening Stability Blueprint”


Integrating It All: The 5-Step SDM Evening Reset

  1. Eat balanced snack.
  2. Hydrate.
  3. Tap (or heart-hold breathing).
  4. Challenge catastrophic thought (CBT).
  5. Journal the deeper spiritual question:
    • What is this anxiety asking of me?
    • Is this fear physical, psychological, or existential?

Because sometimes anxiety is:

  • Lower blood sugar.
  • A tired brain.
  • Learned thought pattern.
  • Your soul asking for attention.

Final Reflection: Anxiety Is Not One Thing

It can be metabolic, cognitive, and nervous-system based.

Yet, it can also be spiritual. Therefore, healing must be layered.

Tapping regulates.
CBT clarifies.
Food stabilizes.
Ritual integrates.

And when we approach anxiety this way, we move from fighting the darkness to preparing for it — wisely, compassionately, and embodied.

Related resources:

https://spiritualdepthmovement.com/why-heartbreak-may-edge-with-colds-mind-spirit-somatic-entanglement/

https://wordpress.com/reader/feeds/154885994/posts/5948229661

https://www.natamontoya.com/eft-without-tapping/

https://www.thetappingsolution.com/blog/traditional-and-alternative-eft-tapping-points

https://theanxietyguy.com/the-powerful-role-of-spiritual-healing-in-anxiety-recovery/

https://acupressure.com/articles/acupressure-points/

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